Why did I attract that? Law of Attraction

law of attraction articles Jun 30, 2020

Does this sound like something you’ve caught yourself saying? Are you curious about how YOU, of all people, can attract something negative? During my monthly Q&A calls, members continue to be curious about why they are attracting negative things.

Sometimes it’s obvious why you are attracting negative things. In many cases, it’s because you’ve been talking about what you don’t want. Or you’ve been listening to someone else as they talk about what they don’t want. As you’ve heard me say over and over again, “Whatever you give your attention, energy and focus to, you’ll get more of!”

Yet there are still many of you who put your hands on your hips and say, “I didn’t want that! I didn’t want it, so how could I possibly have given it attention? I didn’t talk about it, so how could I possibly attract it?”

Well, there’s another reason! If you haven’t been talking about it, you’ve been unintentionally observing it. Observing what you DON’T like or DON’T want causes you to attract more of it. That’s right! Just observing it.

Observing what you DON’T like or DON’T want causes you to attract more of it.

Remember, as you observe anything, you are giving it attention, energy and focus. What are you paying attention to that you DON’T want to attract?

  • The real estate market that everyone is complaining about?
  • The negative stock market reports that the media constantly repeats 24/7?
  • Health problems your friends share with you?
  • All the details about a bad relationship one of your friends is experiencing?

It’s time to mind your own vibration and start deliberately giving your attention, energy and focus to what you DO want. In your observation of anything, positive or negative, you offer or send out a matching negative or matching positive vibration. And, as most of you know, the Law of Attraction does not know whether what you are attracting is something you want or desire. It constantly unfolds and orchestrates whatever needs to happen to bring you more of the same vibration you are sending out.

Start today to become more conscious, cautious and deliberate about what you are observing.

What can you do today to deliberately observe only what you want more of?

Here are my suggestions:

  1. Observe couples who are romantic and enjoying each other’s company.
  2. In business, keep the file folders of your ideal clients nearby so you can observe them regularly. Do the same with positive sales reports! Observe them more often!
  3. Watch happy TV only!

For those of you who have a copy of my book, Law of Attraction, revisit page 18 to remind yourself of the Observation Cycle.



Michael Losier is a Certified Emotion Code Practitioner and Law of Attraction Coach/Trainer living in Victoria, BC, Canada.
He is the author of three bestselling books:
Law of Attraction: The Science of Attracting More of What You Want and Less of What You Don't,
Law of Connection: The Science of Using NLP to Create Ideal Personal and Business Relationships, and
Your Life's Purpose: Uncover What Really Fulfills You.

Learn more about Michael and his services on Releasing Negative Emotions, visit: www.ReleasingNegativeEmotions.com

Michael was interviewed four times by Oprah Winfrey on her Soul Series show on Oprah Radio(TM). Michael then went on to host his own radio show on Oprah Radio(TM). 

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