Responsibility and You! - Law of Attraction

law of attraction articles Apr 08, 2020

As a certified NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) practitioner, I’ve learned about the impact of words, and I particularly like reframing a word’s meaning. By reframing I mean to look at a word and its meaning from a different point of view. Consider the following reframe of the word “responsibility.”

The word responsibility has two words buried within it—the word Response and the word Ability. Here is a different definition for the word responsibilityMy ability to choose my response.

Both positive and negative things happen to people. It’s not what happens to you, it’s how you respond to what happens to you. You are always at choice on how you will respond to negative things and, just as important, how long you keep responding to negative things.

In my book, Law of Attraction, I introduce you to the Vibrational Bubble. This bubble is my illustration to have you understand the energy directly around us (imagine you are in this big bubble, and YOUR vibes are included in this bubble). What you say, think, read, observe, talk about, write about, etc. causes you to send a vibration that matches what you give attention to. Law of Attraction is always responding to the vibration you are sending.

What is the Vibration in YOUR Bubble?

Having a negative reaction to something is normal and OK. It’s what you choose to do after having the negative reaction that is most important. Are you complaining about it, writing about the negative experience, telling 10 friends, thinking about it constantly? All this time, you are giving attention to what you don’t want, causing you to include it in your Vibration Bubble, and you will attract more.

So when you have your next negative experience (even a little one) remind yourself that you are at choice. Ask: What should I observe? and How long should I have this negative vibration? Remember that you have the ability to respond—that is your Responsibility!



Michael Losier is a Certified Emotion Code Practitioner and Law of Attraction Coach/Trainer living in Victoria, BC, Canada.
He is the author of three bestselling books:
Law of Attraction: The Science of Attracting More of What You Want and Less of What You Don't,
Law of Connection: The Science of Using NLP to Create Ideal Personal and Business Relationships, and
Your Life's Purpose: Uncover What Really Fulfills You.

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Michael was interviewed four times by Oprah Winfrey on her Soul Series show on Oprah Radio(TM). Michael then went on to host his own radio show on Oprah Radio(TM). 

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